This post is have nthg to do with buses, is more about my thought on boy and girl relationship which i called it "ride 1st pay later" aka pregnant b4 marriage. The sentence is actually comes from a chinese's phrase called "先上车，后补票". That y i put a bus picture on top......Ok 1st of all, i really "pantang" tis kind of practise, is not bcoz im a religious kind of person. Is juz this kind of practice cause alot of problem to themselves and others too. Try imagine a girl juz known a guy 4 juz a few weeks and hav that 1 that1 with him, is so unwise and foolish la 4 my perspective la. Ok, u may say u fall in love from the 1st sight and u hav make he or her ur only one. But if he or she thinks u r their onli one, i think they wont simply hav that1 wit u la.
Now change to another situation, the 1st i thought onli the guys that are "gatal". The girls will hav that1 that1 with their boyfriend juz to show him that they love him "THAT MUCH". But seem like my thinking are soooooo wrong, girls too hav that kind of "gatal" hunch also......damn din c that coming. And im not lying. i cant tell u where i got the information from, is sensitive and i don wanna get caught........:P
the reason i share the topic is this kind of practice eventually ends with something bad, i din say that could n't b any "happily ever after" cases but its really........can find a suitable to describe. It happen to my relatives, friends and even my neighbours. Most of it end with divorce which i felt was a really sad thing. The most significant reason behind tis divorces is not losing their virginity b4 marriage but the pregnancy occurs and they din hav enough understanding with each other well enough and get married. It will coz a hell lot of problem when they start off a family.
Lastly, think twice b4 u act, everything is under ur own control. U don wan somthing bad happens in ur relationship like the bus picture below.
Best regard from : ur friendly neigbourhood cockroach
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